April 23rd, 2024
by Dr. Josh Franklin
by Dr. Josh Franklin
There are several different philosophies that people have when difficulties come. One philosophy is to deny its existence. At times, you can turn on Christian television and see this promoted. This idea is that if you're a Christian, you're never going to have to go through any down days. You're never going to have to go through any difficulties. The Bible does not teach that.
Paul describes that he had to endure his own “thorn in the flesh” in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. We don't know what that thorn was. It could have been a persecutor. After Paul taught the simple gospel message, Judaizers would come along and say, "You can accept Jesus, but you also must abide by Jewish traditions, customs, and laws." That could have been Paul’s thorn in the flesh.
It could have been a physical malady or problem of some kind. Galatians 4:15 says, “…if possible, you would have plucked out your own eyes and given them to me.” Galatians 6:11 says, “See with what large letters I have written to you with my own hand!” Most scholars see this as describing an eyesight problem. It could have been a demonic attack. He calls it a messenger of satan sent to buffet him. We don't know what the thorn was, but he said that God allowed this thorn in the flesh in my life because he was being puffed up beyond measure (2 Corinthians 12:7).
Paul said, “I had been given revelations and visions of the world to come. I had been given these incredible truths, many of them that we've read through as a body of Christ together. And in order that I would not be elevated or puffed up with pride, I was given this thorn in the flesh.” Three times, Paul would say, "Please remove this thorn, deliver me from this thorn," and three times, God would reply, "My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in your weakness." Paul would respond by saying that in his weakness, the power of God is made more evident.
Christians also face challenges and hardships in life. They go through dark times too. In 1 Peter 1:6, Peter says, “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials.” The “this” he is talking about refers to the previous section that underscores all of the blessings that Christians enjoy.
Peter acknowledges that the trials that Christians go through are real and can cause grief and pain. As Christians, we should not pretend that these trials don't exist or that we will never experience them. However, he reminds us that we have a promised inheritance in glory, which we should greatly rejoice in, even if we are facing various trials at the moment. We need to understand that trials are difficult, and they can be heavy and painful. We should not deny their reality.
There's another philosophy out there that says, "Well, I'm just going to take it on the chin. I'm going to grin and bear it. I'm going to endure this difficult time." There's another that would say, “I'm just going to throw up my hands and resign. It's going to happen anyways.”
However, Peter is trying to promote a unique quality in the life of a Christian in this passage. He reminds us that we are blessed beyond measure, far wealthier than we realize, and we should greatly rejoice. Even if we are experiencing a season of heaviness and distress due to various trials, we should experience joy because we are abundantly blessed. The distinctive Christian quality is that Christians experience joy in the midst of trials.
James 1:2-3 says, "Count it all joy, my brethren when you fall into divers temptations, testings, and trials, for we know that it's working endurance in our life,” that is, it's perfecting us. It's doing something for us.
You may ask, “How am I supposed to be happy in the midst of difficulties?”
In The Law of Happiness, psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud (co-author of Boundaries) makes the case that most people are pushing the wrong buttons in their search for happiness. He said we fall prey to thinking things like:
He writes this philosophy is a path to unsustainable happiness for three reasons:
He cites his research that people's happiness is mathematically made up in this way:
His idea is that if you continue to pursue career advancement or earning more money, if you continue to pursue things of this life, the toys of this world, then you're not pursuing the things that really will bring satisfaction and contentment.
He says happy people spend their time and energy building relationships with the people that they love instead of chasing after things. Well, it's hard to do both, so why are we chasing after things that would make us temporarily happy? That would give us kind of an emotional buzz, but not really secure lasting happiness.
I think Dr. Cloud uses the word “happiness” because that is what people are looking for. However, I think the word I would use is “joy” rather than “happiness”. Happiness is really based on what happens to us. It's circumstantial, and the child of God is promised something far greater than happiness. The child of God has been promised joy. Peter says in this passage, "you greatly rejoice." That's the same word. Joy is not based on what happens. It is something internal that doesn't matter what circumstances come our way.
He says that you can experience joy even in the midst of difficult times because you recognize something is going on that maybe you didn't know before. You recognize that this pain is for a season, but there's something on the other end of that pain that you can rejoice about. For instance, Lydia and I have three sons. With each one, there were nine months in the womb and then the labor pains. She could go through the labor pains, understanding that precious baby is going to be delivered. The pain is momentary, but the joy is lasting. So you can get through the difficulties because of what's to come on the other side. You know this is not going to be forever. This is going to be momentary.
"Father, help me long for Your joy, no matter what I’m facing. Help me face today’s challenges remembering that I am abundantly blessed. Help me invest my time in things that promote joy and not just happiness. I pray that my ability to lean on You during difficult times will be a testimony to others and point people to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
Paul describes that he had to endure his own “thorn in the flesh” in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. We don't know what that thorn was. It could have been a persecutor. After Paul taught the simple gospel message, Judaizers would come along and say, "You can accept Jesus, but you also must abide by Jewish traditions, customs, and laws." That could have been Paul’s thorn in the flesh.
It could have been a physical malady or problem of some kind. Galatians 4:15 says, “…if possible, you would have plucked out your own eyes and given them to me.” Galatians 6:11 says, “See with what large letters I have written to you with my own hand!” Most scholars see this as describing an eyesight problem. It could have been a demonic attack. He calls it a messenger of satan sent to buffet him. We don't know what the thorn was, but he said that God allowed this thorn in the flesh in my life because he was being puffed up beyond measure (2 Corinthians 12:7).
Paul said, “I had been given revelations and visions of the world to come. I had been given these incredible truths, many of them that we've read through as a body of Christ together. And in order that I would not be elevated or puffed up with pride, I was given this thorn in the flesh.” Three times, Paul would say, "Please remove this thorn, deliver me from this thorn," and three times, God would reply, "My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in your weakness." Paul would respond by saying that in his weakness, the power of God is made more evident.
Christians also face challenges and hardships in life. They go through dark times too. In 1 Peter 1:6, Peter says, “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials.” The “this” he is talking about refers to the previous section that underscores all of the blessings that Christians enjoy.
Peter acknowledges that the trials that Christians go through are real and can cause grief and pain. As Christians, we should not pretend that these trials don't exist or that we will never experience them. However, he reminds us that we have a promised inheritance in glory, which we should greatly rejoice in, even if we are facing various trials at the moment. We need to understand that trials are difficult, and they can be heavy and painful. We should not deny their reality.
There's another philosophy out there that says, "Well, I'm just going to take it on the chin. I'm going to grin and bear it. I'm going to endure this difficult time." There's another that would say, “I'm just going to throw up my hands and resign. It's going to happen anyways.”
However, Peter is trying to promote a unique quality in the life of a Christian in this passage. He reminds us that we are blessed beyond measure, far wealthier than we realize, and we should greatly rejoice. Even if we are experiencing a season of heaviness and distress due to various trials, we should experience joy because we are abundantly blessed. The distinctive Christian quality is that Christians experience joy in the midst of trials.
James 1:2-3 says, "Count it all joy, my brethren when you fall into divers temptations, testings, and trials, for we know that it's working endurance in our life,” that is, it's perfecting us. It's doing something for us.
You may ask, “How am I supposed to be happy in the midst of difficulties?”
In The Law of Happiness, psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud (co-author of Boundaries) makes the case that most people are pushing the wrong buttons in their search for happiness. He said we fall prey to thinking things like:
- If I could just make a little more money, then I would be happy.
- If I could just find that special someone…
- If I could get that promotion…
- If I could finally own a home…
- If I could move and live in a different city…
- If I could get that new model (of whatever)…
- If I could get my ______ degree…
- If I could lose twenty pounds…
- If I were beautiful…
- If I could move to that neighborhood…
- If I were rich…
- If I were famous…
He writes this philosophy is a path to unsustainable happiness for three reasons:
- Our external circumstances do not have the inherent power to bring us happiness. His dad told him once, "Son, money can't buy happiness. But it can buy you a big red Cadillac to go look for it in." Studies have shown that the happiness levels between rich people and average income people is not that different.
- Circumstantial happiness does not last.
- When we are pursuing the things that don't have the power to make us happy, we are ignoring the ones that do.
He cites his research that people's happiness is mathematically made up in this way:
- 50% seems to be your temperament or genetics. [Babies in nurseries are constitutionally different from each other]
- 10% is your circumstances. If things are going great, you get a lift of about 10% in your happiness levels, and if things are not great (other than times of great tragedy or trauma, which can bring a season of great pain) you get a little downturn.
- 40% of your happiness is directly under your control—your behavior, thoughts, and intentional practices—the things you do on purpose.
His idea is that if you continue to pursue career advancement or earning more money, if you continue to pursue things of this life, the toys of this world, then you're not pursuing the things that really will bring satisfaction and contentment.
He says happy people spend their time and energy building relationships with the people that they love instead of chasing after things. Well, it's hard to do both, so why are we chasing after things that would make us temporarily happy? That would give us kind of an emotional buzz, but not really secure lasting happiness.
I think Dr. Cloud uses the word “happiness” because that is what people are looking for. However, I think the word I would use is “joy” rather than “happiness”. Happiness is really based on what happens to us. It's circumstantial, and the child of God is promised something far greater than happiness. The child of God has been promised joy. Peter says in this passage, "you greatly rejoice." That's the same word. Joy is not based on what happens. It is something internal that doesn't matter what circumstances come our way.
He says that you can experience joy even in the midst of difficult times because you recognize something is going on that maybe you didn't know before. You recognize that this pain is for a season, but there's something on the other end of that pain that you can rejoice about. For instance, Lydia and I have three sons. With each one, there were nine months in the womb and then the labor pains. She could go through the labor pains, understanding that precious baby is going to be delivered. The pain is momentary, but the joy is lasting. So you can get through the difficulties because of what's to come on the other side. You know this is not going to be forever. This is going to be momentary.
"Father, help me long for Your joy, no matter what I’m facing. Help me face today’s challenges remembering that I am abundantly blessed. Help me invest my time in things that promote joy and not just happiness. I pray that my ability to lean on You during difficult times will be a testimony to others and point people to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
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